A narcissistic sister-in-law can be difficult to deal with, so you should learn how she behaves and acts. It will give you an edge over her. Notice if she portrays signs of a narcissistic person, but never confront her as it could quickly escalate things making you the family villain. Instead, you can take steps … Read more
Being yourself around your in-laws from the beginning will avoid creating false expectations, and you’ll have to worry less. Talk to your spouse and get to know the in-laws before marrying into the family. But also form your opinion by spending time with them. Let go of preconceived notions about evil in-laws and enter the … Read more
Spending holidays with two sets of families can be better handled by discussing how to divide time equally in the future with your spouse. According to your situation, you could spend each holiday equally or divide major holidays in a year with both families. Another way is to alternate celebrations each year. If you’re busy … Read more
When dealing with cultural differences, ensure you stay patient and respectful in understanding each other’s culture. Educate each other’s family, discuss points of conflict, enjoy common things, cross the language barrier, and address miscommunications to cross the cultural bridge. Most importantly, please don’t force your culture on your in-laws or let them do the same. … Read more
Marriage brings with it the joy of starting a life together as a couple. As partners, you should share the responsibility of making decisions that shape your lives. While seeking your in-laws’ opinions can provide valuable insight, it’s essential to recognize that you and your spouse need to make your own choices as a couple. … Read more
It can be challenging to stop your interfering in-laws when raising your children. But before telling them off, you must know how you wish to raise your children, including the things you can or can’t accept. When you find any disruptive behavior from in-laws, talk to your spouse about it and discuss how to handle … Read more
Establishing healthy boundaries with in-laws include conversing with your partner first. Discussing what your in-laws did or said and how that made you feel helps you find the root cause and then set a boundary. Create boundaries by spending time differently (like meeting for coffee one time and going to the movies the next time). … Read more
When taking care of your elderly parents, don’t baby them. Remember, they’re your parents, who just need help with a few things. By creating boundaries and helping them keep their independence, you treat them as your parents, not children. Let them ask for help when needed instead of doing everything for them. Avoid nagging and … Read more
Consider the pros and cons of living with in-laws or having them live closer to you and discuss the same with your spouse. Setting healthy boundaries with in-laws can help you, in the long run, to prevent a mental breakdown and avoid unnecessary conflicts. Other factors to consider are maintaining privacy, avoiding getting between each … Read more
Sick in-laws should not be overlooked. You should help your spouse care for them. Even if you don’t have cordial relationships, discuss ways to care for in-laws with your spouse. Consider sharing responsibilities, moving closer to in-laws, taking decisions together, supporting spouse emotionally, and giving independence to in-laws. Depending on the severity of the sickness, … Read more
